Putting up the Sanders Family
Christmas Tree is always a complex operation, and this year’s production is no
different.
First, there is the search for
the tree. Then, there is bringing the
tree home. After that, there is the
storing of the tree until the proper date, after which comes placing the tree
in the stand. Finally, there is the
decorating of the tree. None of these
are simple tasks where the Sanders Family Christmas Tree is concerned.
The tree comes into the house. That's 'The Lemon Drop Kid' playing in the background. Double-click on any of these photos for a slideshow. |
I should interject a little
background for the unwary reader. Mine
is a mixed marriage. Betty is a
born-and-bred New Yorker from the Finger Lakes, where horse-drawn sleighs drag
magnificent, fresh-cut firs through crisp, fresh-fallen snow to homes on
Christmas Eve. I am a native Floridian
and my circa-1957 vision of the pathetic, parched, brown-needled Scotch pines that
slumped listlessly against fences in Kiwanis-Club-operated lots in my hometown
is permanently seared in memory.
This is a drawing on an egg of our first house, a brownstone in Brooklyn |
Betty has always been a true
believer. She only had to give me a
taste of the Real Thing to bring me around.
I cut my first Christmas tree in 1974 on a tree farm north of Albany
with Betty as my guide to distinguishing between ‘good’ and ‘bad’ trees. It was a revelation. I was hooked.
I saw the light, and there no greater zealot in the Christmas Tree
Universe than a convert.
A decided mix of cultures: at lower left, a Ukranian egg from our days in Chicago; at center, an Indian on an elephant; one of Betty's parent's ornaments from the 1940s. |
There's something for everyone on the tree |
The density of ornaments reflects travel and eclectic tastes. |
On Monday, though, there was a
warning for a fresh three-to-six inches of the white stuff the following day
and we thought it unwise to carry a snow-encrusted tree into the house. So, we cleared a space in the garage and
devoted two hours to anchoring the tree to the railing of one of our garage
doors while tying the base of the tree to the other railing so the tree could
not kick out and hit a car. Elapsed time: ninety minutes.
Then, late Tuesday afternoon,
after the tree had shed its accumulation of snow (and while heavy snow fell
outside), we carried it into the house.
We must be getting better at placing trees in stands (it requires an extremely
heavy-duty stand to accommodate a tree of our size and girth) because we got it
standing perfectly straight on the first try.
We tightened the tree in its stand.
We also deploy a pair of guy wires to augment the stand because, in
years past, cats had gotten inspired to scale the tree in search of whatever it
is cats climb trees to find.
A koala from Australia, an angel, an ornate ceramic egg and my drawing of our Stamford home. |
Tuesday evening, we added nine
hundred lights. Wednesday, we started
decorating.
It is decorating a tree that is
the true joy of having one. Opening each
box of ornaments is a voyage of discovery through time and space. There are the tiny vases we acquired in
Greece and the prayer balls from Japan.
There are matched glass lamps from Harrod’s in London and terra cotta
jugs from Sorrento. There is a tiny Champagne
bottle from old friends in Virginia and one of my baby shoes.
Box after box is opened and
memories are unleashed: tiny koalas from
Australia and a carved tiger in a Santa cap from the San Diego Zoo; crystal
icicles we bought on sale after Christmas at B. Altman in the late 1970s and
delicate ornaments from the 1940s that graced Betty’s tree when she was a
girl. Hand-painted Ukrainian eggs from
our days in Chicago and a Russian one featuring a red fox framed against a
snowy night from a street fair in Augusta, Georgia.
The finished tree. Merry Christmas! |
This is our ritual. Christmas means many things to different
people. For me, the tree is a symbol of
both timeless and evolution; of change and of constancy. I look at the decorated tree and I see a
diorama of my life preserved in precious bundles each weighing a few ounces.
Christmas trees come but once a
year, but the enchantment is eternal.